A common Ryan refrain in our house is: “I don’t know why you let her play with that.” He means well and isn’t talking about anything outright dangerous. Usually, it’s just a little risky… to me. For instance, my wallet, … Continue reading
Certain things mark time: music we love, a scent in the air, a certain haircut. Children seem to move even faster than all that. With H. right now I want to remember that she sings every third word or so of “Twinkle, Twinkle, … Continue reading
We text daily a lot of the time. We video chat twice a month. But all four of us have only met in person twice. The first time last May, when one loss was so raw and so wrong in the way it … Continue reading
As I recently posted and as I wrote last year and the year before, October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, October 15 in particular our day. I was impressed with the coverage this year, especially in mainstream publications such as … Continue reading
I met Dr. Jessica Zucker this past March at BinderCon L.A. We attended the panel on Death and Loss because we each lost pregnancies in 2012. So, you could say I’ve known her since then—in the way you only know someone, … Continue reading